Category: wrath

Psychology of Motivating Communications, by david jarvis 2022.

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ostracise : 1. to banish (someone) from their native country; expatriate.
2. to exclude by general consent from society, privileges, etc.

exclude : 1. to shut or keep out; prevent the entrance of.
2. to shut out from consideration, privilege, etc.
3. to expel and keep out; thrust out, eject.

Macquarie Dictionary ios.
Trade embargoes are ostracisation, which often expand into open warfare, go read some history please.

I’m not listening to you, I refuse to discuss this matter. The matter is closed. No. I’m not coming.

You’re not listening to me. You’re not hearing what I’m saying. You did this to yourself. No. Leave.

negative ; 1. expressing or containing negation or denial.
2. expressing refusal to do something.
3. refusing consent, as to a proposal.
4. prohibitory, as an order or command.
5. characterised by the absence of distinguising or marked qualities or features; lacking positive attributes: a negative character.
6. unnecessarily sceptical and discouraging.
ibid.

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If an entity, individual or otherwise is frequently sceptical and discouraging, shuts you out, or thrusts you out of the group, and excludes some or just one… Are they acting in accord with inclusive principles?

When you make a complaint – are your issues considered sceptically? Are you ostracized? Are you denied access?
After you’ve made multiple complaints do you discover that all your further feedback is ignored?
A complaint is feedback about a way forward, do you feel that all criticism is bad?
Are you yourself being negative about criticism?

If a coach says “you’re backhand drop shot is poor.” do you feel bad, do you feel motivated to improve?
Must people walk on egg shells around you?

What does resilient mean?
Perhaps the coach needs to say, “I reckon that drop shot would improve if you trained for this…”
Language – but why does language need to be utterly perfect?


Negativity bias, conflation and exaggeration.

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This person hurt me twice, thus I feel like all they ever do is hurt me, thus I hate them forever, and will ignore all the good they ever do, holding cynicism about anything they do into the future ever more.

Does familiarity breed contempt?


This entity does 999 things for 999 other individuals, why don’t they do something for me?
We didn’t even know you wanted us to, but now that you’ve put the question forth in that angry resentful way – well we don’t like you at all, so no, we aint gonna do business with you now anyways.

Shame causes resentment, and people who resent do not cooperate.
If you live in fear or anxiety, then any questioning or criticism may initially cause shame and resentment. Will you overcome that initial feeling and aim to improve?

Do not appear too good, nor appear too wise. Some people resent others looking good. Who are you going to hang out with? A bunch of whinging no hopers lamenting about how everyone else has more money, more opportunity, or???

Are you just going to give up and get drunk or intoxicated after working or studying all week in a low paying job or at school, because you’ve not got the courage to face your own incompetence about so many things? Are you actually a fool, that is so foolish you want to stay a fool!

Mummy, it’s too hard, i give up. Daddy, can you do it for me please?

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What motivates yourself?

Shame? Maybe. Encouragement? Maybe. Neutrality? Maybe. What is your personality?

How can you become self motivating?

My opening position is that I know very little about Asian History, thus I am incompetent about asian history, thus when inclined to improve myself, I have the opportunity to study asian history.

After I’ve spent time studying MY WEAKNESSES, I am stronger.

My weaknesses are where my greatest opportunities for growth and development exist.

There are no “natural” great people – they all put in time and effort, it’s just that you think they’re a natural because you haven’t seen them doing all that work. They are quiet achievers.

Shane Warne said “there are no naturals”. He was totally correct, he was brilliant because he trained consistently competently for decades!

Ask yourself…

What do I want to be competent at?

What do I want to be brilliant at?

Where are my priorities?

Who am I, and what do I want?

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Asked for too little, got even less. By David Jarvis Winter day 3, 2022.

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carnage on the roads, they don’t ask for much either, image by david jarvis 2022.

Look mate NO!

i am just saying no

know that I am saying no

i’m gone, gone for so long

you’ll forget i was ever here

gone to a new place

to work on forgetting your face

go on, you get the naff out of my space

you’re a fucking disgrace

you mixed up evil cunt

i want nothing of you, you pathetic runt

come near me again

and you’ll feel such pain

you’ll long for your own death

with each gasping bubbling breath

through pierced lungs and broken ribs

for drugging me up and spreading those fibs

about me

here is your destiny

i’m going to squash your knees

you think i’m boasting?

come here, let me show you a roasting.

you think i’m jesting?

You’ve only seen me resting.

I’m warmed up now, have stoked my fires

with the depths of desires.

Asked for too little, got even less

pfft, got zero,

got only one hero

you don’t know, you got no naffing idea

hard? l.o.l., you got lard in your brain

the same tired weak as piss refrain

I’m on my bike m.a.t.e., there’s the gate out of here.

Do you spin or grind?

I fucking fly, good bye.

restrained version of the above poem daj.
angry version of the above poem, by daj 2022

Which version do you prefer? If inclined, let me know in the reply box on my contacts page. daj.

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Enshrined psychological abuse by australian government and profit mad entities.

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1800respect on PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE.
Treating you badly because of things you can’t change — for example, your religion, race, past, disability, gender, sexuality, or family
Ignoring you or pretending you aren’t there.

Those two are precisely and exactly what Centrelink does to millions of australians every day.
When you are disabled or unemployed, centrelink will treat you badly about what you cannot change and keep you so poverty stricken you cannot even get consistent quality medical care. Then when one has a total break down, the public health system is so strained, you will do well to survive it. After you get out you won’t get consistent assistance because you are no longer an emergency and thus inevitably you will have another break down.

Meanwhile, when you apply for disability support pension, your application is likely to be rejected so often that all your complaints and efforts will be ignored and centrelink will pretend you aren’t even disabled. Meanwhile no employer will hire you because they see you are “disabled”, and just ignore your application.

centrelink, keeping Citizens in poverty forever by david jarvis 2022.

If you are a “job seeker” the main purpose of “job providers” is not to provide you with a job, but instead to mandate that you look for a job that you will not actually be successful in. If you miss one single appointment the “job provider” will immediately suspend the life saving meagre payments citizens need just to eat and drink and thus apply pressure for compliance upon yourself and the middle class.

Get a job or die is the real Centrelink motto.

The vast majority of people do want to work, they try every day to do useful things, but the reality of the modern world is that not everyone actually needs to work “full time” for society to function effectively. Aiming for perpetual profit growth is stupidity. Australia needs some good old stagnation with rest and recovery.

The aussie economy needs bed rest, not more 100 metre sprints till it vomits.

Centrelink is one of the most evil organisations in australia, burn it down. I will not vote for either of the two “major” parties, they both support centrelink keeping citizens in perpetual severe poverty.

Go read the constitutional statements of many incorporations, you will discover horrors upon horrors written in legalise terminology.

Privacy policy = your privacy is not private at all, we will give your information to whomever will pay to receive it!

Terms and conditions = subject to change without notice!

Rights and responsibilities = you have few rights and all the responsibility. This incorporation has all the rights and has no responsibility for any harms not proven in a court of law beyond reasonable doubt.

I have a grievance about such n such.
We are sad you feel that way.
I have a grievance about such and such, please redress the harm done to me.
That matter is closed.
What did you do about my grievance?
The matter is filed.
What investigation did you undertake about my grievance?
(silence).
I have raised the grievance with the authority above you.
That’s amusing.

first they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.

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